Discovering the purpose of the party!

Why party? 

Well, to have a good time, of course!  That’s the stereotypical "frat boy" answer to partying, but that's not the real question being asked here. The real question goes just a little bit deeper: What is the purpose of your gathering?

Is it to celebrate someone's birthday?  Commemorate an anniversary?  Mark a significant milestone?  Or perhaps it's just to bring your closest friends together?

The reason why you're throwing the party will inevitably help shape and structure the event.

“Unique, yet the same.”

That's the mantra you need to keep in mind as you plan this party.  Perhaps you've been tasked with hosting a small event commemorating the retirement of one of your colleagues.  Why did they ask you? They chose you because someone recalled that great small gathering you held at your house several months ago.

That's fine, you think.  But a small gathering of close friends is easy to plan.  A retirement party?  That's different.

Yes and no.  Obviously, no two parties are alike -- each has a distinct purpose and direction.  But when you scratch the surface of a party, they all have common elements.

All adult parties can be classified into three major categories: dinner, cocktail, or buffet.  Each type has its own unique style and requirements.

In addition, your guest list and the alcoholic beverages you serve (if any) will vary with each type of party, as will the food. Even the time of day you throw a party will differ depending on the event’s category.

There, you'll discover my complete party planning system.  It takes the fear out of preparing your home for guests.